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happy birthday monkey boy

passion for running category: friends & family on Friday, May 27 2005

Christopher is three today.

There is no describing the happiness this little man brings me. Prior to becoming Christopher’s daddy, noone could have come close to describing the bond I’d grow to have with him.

One of the thoughts I often have when writing in this blog is that someday, my kids will read this and see it as a kind of window into daddy’s soul. With that thought in mind, these words are for you Christopher…

I love you boy. More than anything. There was, not so long ago, a time of great sadness when I thought I wasn’t going to get to be a daddy. It’s that memory I cling to whenever I wonder what I’ve gotten myself into each time I watch you pound my living room walls into pulp with anything you can find resembling a hammer, or wear down my patience with “why daddy, why daddy, why daddy…”

I remember the horror of seeing you fall off that ledge when you were only one year old and thinking…I’d lost you. I still have nightmares about that moment, but I also am grateful knowing it was God’s/the universe’s plan for teaching me the preciousness of your life.

I would step in front of a car for you Christopher. I would battle a hundred soldiers and trade my life to save yours and I’d make the decision to do so in less than a heartbeat.

Make my life Christopher. Grow up to be a happy, strong, honourable man.

You are my joy. Never forget that.

All my love Monkey Boy,
~Dad




13 Comments

Comment by air-run

Friday May 27, 2005 @

I remember when he was just a zygote and we were training for Kelowna….where does the time go?? Congrats on your son turning 3. I remember the day perfectly when he fell….I guess the good Lord didn’t want him up there banging his walls peeing all over his couch…good thing for you!!

Comment by Mark

Friday May 27, 2005 @

Ah yes, Kelowna. When I carried a cell phone during long runs just in case Lori went into labour while I was gone!

Comment by Rebecca

Friday May 27, 2005 @

Mark, I swear to god, if you weren’t already married…. :)

Comment by susan

Friday May 27, 2005 @

What a beautiful tribute. You are one special man, Mark

Comment by Marie

Friday May 27, 2005 @

Awww – that is wonderful. Happy Birthday Christopher!

Comment by Dawn (aka Pink Lady)

Friday May 27, 2005 @

Happy Birthday Christopher! Three is such an awesome age. Hmmmm maybe he should meet my granddaughter in a few years ;-)

Comment by beverly

Friday May 27, 2005 @

Happy Birthday to your beautiful little man! Your testimony of love for him moved me to tears … what beautiful words for him to read one day.

Comment by Mia

Friday May 27, 2005 @

That picture is amazing. I love the way you love him.

Comment by frolicking filly

Saturday May 28, 2005 @

Thats beautiful Mark, when he grows up and reads your blogs (looking into your soul) He will be so proud.
Heather

Comment by BD

Saturday May 28, 2005 @

I nearly teared up reading your words. I feel exactly the same about our little guy who will be three in August and now our second who is only a little over a week old. Beautiful, beautiful tribute.

By the way, he’s a handsome little guy. Where’d he get his looks?

Comment by BD

Saturday May 28, 2005 @

You know, of course, that I was only teasing. When I see your two photos side-by-side the resemblence to you is striking.

Comment by Lesley

Monday May 30, 2005 @

Ahh Kelowna! I remember meeting Lori for the first time in the parking lot of the shopping centre of the Running Room and how painful her back was!! This is the year before training for Kelowna! Remember that time! Happy Birthday little Christopher.

Comment by jeff

Tuesday May 31, 2005 @

happy birthday monkey boy!

what a great letter to your son, mark. hope he gets to read it at some point.

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