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Filed under: General — beverly at 10:21 pm on Friday, February 10, 2006

What a crazy week it’s been … I am surprised that I’ve managed to get in three runs, but perhaps that’s what is keeping me sane. I presented at a major conference this week, and had a big career moment, where I realized that I’ve arrived. I’m all grown up. I presented on a panel with a very well-respected rec therapist, Renate, who actually was an instructor of mine in University. It just struck me: we are peers. And then, a just-about-to-graduate RT came up to me and was picking my brain about some issues in our field, it struck me again. She’s asking me because I’ve been in this field for awhile. To her, I am Renate. That part just made me giggle out loud for some reason. I know I’ve done well, and my career has taken a very steady path considering that I haven’t worked full-time in awhile with three kids. But, somehow, I just don’t feel so very grown-up.

I just got back from running with my friend Vicky … the one I did the run with in September. I love friendships like hers, when you move through the “acquaintance” phase really, really quickly because the connection is so strong. She’s an amazing woman.

Interestingly, when we were running tonight, I coughed a few times, and Vicky commented: “You have asthma, right?” I don’t know that I have asthma. My son Troy has asthma — moreso cold-induced than anything. However, she got me thinking. I do cough consistently when I run — the throat-clearing kind of cough. As in every 2 minutes at least. Interesting, and something I’m going to explore a bit more.

Other bits:

–Saw Curious George today with Derek and Camryn and a gaggle of Derek’s friends. It was so cute, and I thought the Drew Barrymore character was depicted so well.

–Feeling the need to develop a Game Cube rationing system in my house. Because the basement is under renovation, we are living on our main floor only right now. It sucks, frankly. The Game Cube is right in my lovely living room, where I like to talk and read and tickle. But noooooo …… I get to hear the beepbeeepbadumbeeeeeep of Mario Kart Super Seven Smelly Crash Brothers Return or whatever game they love waaaaaaaaay too much. I am not anti-video game … I Santa bought the thing, didn’t Ihe??!?! I find myself almost hating it though, and I think it’s just that I can’t get away from it. We limit the time the boys have on it, but I think I’m going to re-frame that. To EARNING the time they get on it. By …. reading and doing chores and saving the world or something. Yeesh. Any thoughts out there from more experienced parents?

–Downstairs is under complete renovation (I think Troy has forgotten he even wanted his own room?!?!) and I’m getting quotes on some work upstairs. Renovation is a virus, I swear. We want to rip out a pantry that creates an annoying circle / makes our kitchen too small. To do that, I got a quote from an amazing custom woodworker to make me a unit to put all the pantry things in. With this pantry and closet gone, we’ll have more of a great room concept. It means redoing floors …. and we need to paint … and we’ll need more light. See … virus! Why does this all take so long in my house?!!? Because when Kevin is home, it’s my time to make student calls and work. We juggle that in a big way for me to be home with the kids probably 95% of the time.

–I just found out that I am heading to Vancouver in early March!!! Yay!!!! I get to run that seawall again …… :)

6 Comments

Comment by susie

Saturday February 11, 2006 @ 5:04 pm

What a good feeling–professionally. It’s great when everything starts to come together.

Comment by david

Saturday February 11, 2006 @ 6:23 pm

I’ve lived in six different houses over the years. I have never done structural alterations. Too much trouble. I just fix it up and sell it for a lot of profit and buy a bigger house or a smaller house and pay off bills. Works for me.

Comment by mia

Sunday February 12, 2006 @ 9:52 pm

Hey, did you get my email on Erik’s suggestions for organizing all that video junk? As for being sick of hearing it…I’m looking forward to your wise readers’ suggestions….me not being one of them, by the way. :)

Comment by Kim

Monday February 13, 2006 @ 2:39 pm

We too have a system for the video games. My son has his gameboy that would be connect to his little fingers if not. Like you, I’m not anti-game…I just want him to be balanced. And at 6, he still needs the guideance to do so. After school & homework (as much as a 6 yo gets), he can play on his gameboy – after dark for 1/2 the time that he played outside that day. By the time we eat, do baths, etc…typically it’s no more than 1/2 an hour.

Comment by Jack

Monday February 13, 2006 @ 11:07 pm

We renovated for two months before we moved into our house fours years ago. Now we are planning on renovating the entire first floor sometime in the next 3-5 years. This renovation plan started with an idea just to renovate the bathroom, but the virus spread and now we want to do half the house. Personally I like David’s idea better…

Hey, three run’s, that’s great! A good stress releaser!

Comment by jeff

Tuesday February 14, 2006 @ 9:08 am

wow…i freak out when the house is in chaos. hope you’re able to manage the insanity with your running! good luck with the renovations and may they go by quickly!

oh…i saw a commercial last night for home depot. it was kids talking about what they think heros are. “heros are very very fast!”, “heros can do things other people can’t”, but the one that made me laugh OUT LOUD was “heros wear tights!”. i immediatly thought of derek. heh

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