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mushy stuff

Filed under: General,Oops! Not Really At All About Running — beverly at 1:00 pm on Monday, May 30, 2005

Preview to the mush:

I had a not-so-great weekend. When I have too much to do, ie. with this curriculum project, I am bad at not being able to pause mentally and leave things behind to enjoy other things, ie. my family. I just re-read that sentence. I am a writer?!? Yeesh. But, my thoughts are coming out like mashed-potatoes, so that’s the way it is. If you want eloquence today, check out any of the blog links on the right.

I was really hard on my boys this weekend. They are a veeeeeeeery competititive pair, and it drives me nuts. Competition often comes with whining from the non-winner, so it was a long weekend. Hubby went to Ft. McMurray to watch a rescue competition. Yesterday we all went to see Madagascar, and when 2-year old Camryn fell asleep on my lap, I fell asleep too. I was disappointed, because I actually wanted to see this flick. So I woke up grouchy. Who is two?!?!?

Then today, I pick up Derek from kindergarten (he is done at noon each day) and the teacher tells me that “my two sons” (she says this with much emphasis, like I didn’t get a license to raise two sons or something) were in a “kerfuffle” (?? must be a Christian word for bru-ha-ha) at recess. It turns out Big Brother doesn’t want Little Brother playing with his friends. Sigh. I chatted (now that’s a light word) with both at lunchtime. They’re having trouble with each other, that’s for sure. It exhausts me as a mom, that’s also for sure.

Enough. This post was supposed to be mushy.

Two mushy things:

1. Today is my brother Stu’s 41st birthday. I love this guy; his warped sense of humour kills me and his reflections on life are always something I have time to listen to. He’s five-and-a-half years older than me, and he’s pretty special.

2. Today, my dearest friend and family are coming to town from B.C. for a visit. We’ve got all kinds of time together dotted throughout the week, and tonight is dinner with our families. Jacquie and I have not lived in the same city since University days, yet our bond is as strong as ever. It’s going to be a fun week.

If only I can be calmer with my kids. :)

PS: Hmmm… not a bit of exercise in 3 days …. I smell a correlation ……

5 Comments

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Comment by susan

Monday May 30, 2005 @ 4:48 pm

I know it must seem years away….and it is…but it goes really fast….to when somewhere in their late teens, early twenties, my two boys became friends. No more competition. No more out and out rolling on the floor fights. The younger just moved into the older’s apartment for a month until he finds his own place. They like each other. Amazing.

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Comment by Jon in Michigan

Monday May 30, 2005 @ 5:33 pm

Heh, heh. Now if you had daughters, they’d be stealing each other’s clothes, jewelry and makeup. Sibling fights. Lots of fun. :)

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Comment by jeff

Tuesday May 31, 2005 @ 10:41 am

hang in there, b!

the boys are probably just acting out a bit more since dad is away for the weekend. from what you’ve blogged in the past, they sound like they’re pretty groovy little people.

BUT! if they get too out of hand, remember that duct tape and velcro are a babysitters best friend…

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Comment by frolicking filly

Tuesday May 31, 2005 @ 9:37 pm

OHHH I AM so Glad I am past that stage with my kids!!! Being a MOM period is exhausting,, when you have to deal with fighting,, kerfuffles or Br ha ha’s,, yep,, totally impossible to keep calm.. I know many of times I have totally lost it,, and felt like the wickedEST witch from the East and West.. But guess what,, kids usually still love ya.. have a great time with your friends.
Heather

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Comment by David

Wednesday June 01, 2005 @ 7:26 pm

Boys will be boys. They’re a handful now but they get better. Honest! Girls on the other hand … I know nothing about daughters but I hear they’re more ‘difficult’ as they get older. Be happy for that.
And,as for running, you need to get out there and break in that new sports bra!

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