How To Make Your Coach Love You

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Maybe you’ve found extra money in your budget, gotten a raise, won the lottery, or received an inheritance that will allow you to hire a coach. Perhaps you have a friend who is willing to coach you for free. Or maybe you joined a running group that has coaching available.

What’s the best way to take advantage of this resource as you reach for the next level in your running? Here are some guidelines to enable you to be an exemplary client for your coach:

Discuss Expectations

What do you expect from each other? In addition to the financial considerations, if applicable, you should also talk about how information will be communicated back and forth, as well as how often this will occur. For example, do want to receive your schedule on a weekly or monthly basis? Will it be e-mailed to you every Sunday afternoon or Monday morning? Does your coach want you to e-mail weekly feedback about the workouts, or check in after each workout is completed?

Will there be any in-person face-to-face coaching? Evaluation of your running form? Nutritional advice?

Have a clear picture of what you expect from your coach, and be open to hearing about what your coach expects from you.

Provide thorough background information

Your coach will probably ask for background information. Don’t skimp on the details. Talk about your current running schedule—how many days per week, average weekly mileage, time of day you prefer to run, hydration and nutrition while running. Do you stretch?

Include information about your sleeping habits, for example, whether seven hours a night for you is normal. Tell him/her about your eating and drinking habits—what does an average day look like, nutritionally speaking?

Also talk about your activity level outside of running. Do you swim, bike, hike, rock climb, walk the dog, chase three kids around the house? Is your job sedentary or active? What is your stress level like on a daily basis?

All this information will help provide your coach with a ‘baseline’ to work from when monitoring your workouts. It will assist you both in identify when you might be over-trained or when you might be over stressed, tired, dehydrated, etc.

Establish Goals

What are you trying to accomplish? Do you have a specific race in mind? A specific finishing time? Work together to set goals—not one single goal, but multiple goals. A dream goal (“gold”), an achievable but challenging goal (“silver”) and an achievable goal (“bronze”). Set yourself up for success, and set the bar a little higher than you think you can reach.

Listen to Your Coach

This is probably the hardest part of becoming a client. We think we know what’s best for us. Or, we think we know what we won’t be able to do. So when your coach tells you to do eight laps of 800 meters in 3:30, just do it. At the very least, go out there and make every effort to do it to the best of your ability. Don’t change the workout. Don’t tell yourself that you “can’t” do it. Obviously, your coach thinks you can handle it, or it wouldn’t be on the training schedule.

If your going to pay someone to tell you what to do (or not do), then listen to them. See what happens. Most likely, you will be pleasantly surprised.

Make Sure Your Coach Is Listening to You

Be honest with your feedback. Your coach needs to know how you feel in order to adjust the training schedule. If the workouts are too easy, you won’t see much improvement and you’ll get frustrated by the lack of results. If the workouts are too difficult, you risk getting injured or burned out.

Keep in mind that some of the workouts are supposed to be hard. You should be a little uncomfortable. There’s a fine line between “hard” and “impossible.” Monitor yourself carefully and share your observations with your coach.

Bottom line: Being a good client insures that you will get the results you want.

About Dianna

Dianna, also known as the Running Chick with the Orange Hat (Running Chick for short) moved from being a periodic gym rat to a runner in January of 2003 during a botched New Year's resolution. Her newly rediscovered fondness for running quickly blossomed into a full-blown obsession. Within a year and a half, she went from suffering through two miles on the treadmill to running a marathon. Cotton was discarded for wicking fabrics and gel was no longer something she put in her hair. Since then, she has continued to challenge herself, first with achieving her Boston Qualifying time, then running a PR at Boston and doing an occasional sprint distance triathlon. Future endeavors include a trail marathon and longer distance triathlons. Dianna has been blogging about her running adventures since April 2004, even getting an article 'published' online at Runner's World as well as capturing the attention of a local news channel. She can discuss all things related to running, swimming, and biking, at great length, without ever getting bored. In her free time, she enjoys pina coladas and getting caught in the rain, with her husband and multi-racial canine in Connecticut, U.S.A.

  1. Joe Ely on November 16th at 11:21 am

    “So when your coach tells you to do eight laps of 800 meters in 3:30, just do it”

    The essence of this important topic, right here in this sentence, folks. If the proposal is not sheer luncacy, illegal or immoral, just go do it. The coach is acting for your best. Do it. Try it. You will learn something. Don’t fight it.

    Well done, Di, thanks!!

  2. Jeanne on November 16th at 3:09 pm

    good stuff!
    i expect unflagging encouragement and attention … in return I give … unflagging gratitude!

  3. run@ on November 7th at 11:06 am

    good stuff!
    i expect unflagging encouragement and attention … in return I give … unflagging gratitude!

    Great post!
    .-= run@´s last blog ..Runner’s Knee =-.